Planning your wedding budget
A wedding is a major life milestone and a significant financial commitment. Setting a realistic budget and tracking spending by category helps you avoid surprises and start married life on solid footing. This calculator applies industry-style percentage allocations, compares them to your actual vendor quotes, and shows variance and cost per guest. All math runs in your browser.
For broader household budgeting before and after the wedding, use the budget calculator or the 50/30/20 rule budget calculator. Small business owners planning vendor deposits alongside personal expenses can also use the business budget calculator.
Recommended wedding budget breakdown
Every wedding is different, but planners often allocate the total budget using percentage guidelines like these:
- Venue and catering (50%): reception site, food, drinks, service fees, and staff.
- Photography and video (10%): ceremony and reception coverage.
- Attire and beauty (10%): gown, suit, shoes, hair, and makeup.
- Music and entertainment (10%): DJ, band, or ceremony musicians.
- Flowers and decor (10%): bouquets, centerpieces, lighting, and rentals.
- Rings (3%), transport (2%), stationery (2%), gifts (2%), contingency (5%).
Cost per guest and variance
Guest count drives catering, venue size, favors, and stationery. Estimated cost per guest is:
Category variance equals allocated minus actual spend. A positive variance means you are under the guideline for that line item; a negative variance signals overspending.
Worked example
With a $30,000 total budget, the venue and catering line at 50% allocates $15,000. Enter actual quotes in each category to see remaining budget, cost per guest, and where to trim if you are over plan.
Frequently asked questions
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Resources and references
The formulas and methods in this calculator were checked against these independent sources.